Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins
(1 Peter 4:8).

As a Christian, marriage is considered a sacred bond between two individuals binding them together in love, trust, and respect with their foundation being God. However, the reality is that every relationship goes through its ups and downs, and sometimes, seeking professional guidance from a marriage counselor may become necessary. But what can a Christian expect in marriage counseling?

Shared Values

Finding a marriage counselor who shares Christian values and beliefs is essential before you begin healing your marriage. A Christian marriage counselor is well-equipped to understand the unique challenges that Christian couples may face. They provide a safe and non-judgmental environment where you and your partner can express your concerns and explore issues that negatively affect your relationship. In addition, a faith-based counseling experience can help tie in Biblical truths and guidance during sessions to help you and your spouse grow closer to God.

Honest Communication

Your counselor will encourage honest communication to help you understand each other’s perspectives and provide conflict-resolution skills for unresolvable discrepancies. In addition, they will focus on strengthening the spiritual aspect of your marriage, allowing you both to place your faith and trust in God. When relationships get rocky, it is easy to focus on what’s wrong instead of pausing to invite the Lord into your struggles. Yet, seeking healing through the Lord is the best thing you could do for your marriage.

Forgiveness

Christian marriage counseling emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, repentance, and the healing power of God’s love. Your counselor may encourage you to seek forgiveness from each other and God to let go of past hurts and resentments in your marriage. Counselors also guide you and your spouse in rebuilding trust and developing a deeper level of intimacy in your relationship. Accountability and prayer are great ways to begin healing and rebuilding trust.

God-Centered Sessions

You can expect guidance centered around God’s love and grace if you seek faith-based counseling. The counselor may focus on helping you both develop a closer relationship with God. Through prayer, scripture, and the use of therapeutic modalities, you will be equipped to face challenges that life throws your way. God knows we live in a fallen world of sin and is there to guide us through human desires and lay the foundation for a marriage centered around faith and grace.

Godly Roles and Faith

The Bible depicts God’s view of marriage and the roles that we are each meant to take. Husbands are responsible for leading their wives in faith, and women guide and support their husbands through prayer and nurturance. These gender roles are not as popular in today’s culture but still greatly influence the health of your marriage. However, I want to remind you that we must not conform to the ways of this world but hold fast to Godly wisdom and principles. A Christian counselor can help you reestablish faith and restoration in your relationship with your spouse, God and others.

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect (Romans 12:2 ESV).

Next Steps

It is important to remember that Christian marriage counseling is not a one-size-fits-all approach. Each couple’s situation is unique, and each counselor will tailor their approach to suit your and your spouse’s needs. Nevertheless, you can repair your marriage and build a lasting relationship. Should you find this message inspiring but need further guidance to heal your marriage, New Vision Counseling and Consulting could be your answer.

We combine Biblical principles with cutting edge counseling techniques to help you grow closer in your marriage and your relationship with the Lord. We have therapists from all walks of life to meet you where you are and guide you to restoration. Though we thrive on a faith-based approach, we want to offer services that make you feel comfortable despite your spirituality or religious views. Our highly trained therapists are well-versed in all mental health and relationship areas. We can’t wait to hear your story and help you design the marriage of your dreams! You can reach our team by calling (405) 921-7776